I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. Ask her on dates. It time with him I value most. Oh this is a great set of questions. Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family. Yes, we had been in a rough patch for sometime with all of the changing happening around us, moving, starting residency, etc.
We still joke about the latter. I love this post and this perspective. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it.
It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. He told me that the ER doesn't share and I'm pretty much the mistress to the hospital. How am I certain. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. God will help you both work this out. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. I married outside the church and have no regrets.
See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. Edit - I just read through some of your other comments. I don't care about the money, I have suggested him to downsize if needed for him to work less. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it.
