Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. I truly believe that if a man cheats he was always inclined to do so. I'm trying to figure out what I'm getting into in the coming years if I stick around.
I hope that makes sense. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. I went back to school and received a Master's degree from a prestigious university Driving more than an hour each way 6 days a week to so; doing several excavation seasons and tons of research in order to achieve a cherished goal that had been denied me as a young woman. We have 3 children and have now been married 17 years I have been a single mother for yearsthere life is the hospital. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. I didn't even believe.
He is doing 2nd year Residency. I really don't know how will I cope up with every matter without him by my side in this new road ahead of me. I do know other doctors who have more balance but take a cold hard look at what your life will be like if your man is married to medicine. I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do.