Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. As for me, I recall spending a lot of Sundays at sporting events with my dad. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. No lie he was one of the kindest human beings I've metbut I was afraid of getting deeper into the relationship, so I ended it. Do you masturbate, ever. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics.
I'll give him a chance to fix it by talking to him about it, but the more that I think about how he has treated me the more I just feel ready to check out of the whole situation. I usually mean exactly what I say. We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up.
Full respect and care. I also found this interesting and how I found it was just on the web while typing doctors and wive's roles. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences.
Having read the majority of the posts, my only real comment is that "sacrifice must be appreciated by both parties". My family is pretty awesome in the church. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. It's typical to not hear from him for weeks. Thanks for commenting on my blog. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage.