I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. So i try and be supportive with cute texts and never asking him to call me or do anything, but it is hard not to feel resentful. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that.
Luckily, this seems to work out. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. We can't tell you that. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great.
I feel very discouraged. We are alone for many months at a time. Love is what we do, not what we feel. Just trying to make it through the day. Also, I'm having a really hard time understanding from these responses how anyone in the medical field ever dates or gets married. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. I am so beyond afraid of what lies ahead in terms of residency; the loneliness, missing out on years of family experiences together, raising two kids by myself we have a 1. There are times where u rarely hear from him and then he contacts me.
I asked, he refused. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. That is a goal worth fighting for.