Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids.
It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. No one knows your situation the way you do. You should also be willing to date other people. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. I recall reading a talk from Elder Nelson in which he indicated that the church teaches general principles and does not spend time teaching exceptions to general principles.
I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. It's been really, really hard for my fiancee, and I don't think he would be my fiancee if I was this busy when we had met. God told me to marry my husband. Trust me, though--you will. Of course they do.
I get sweet texts some morning when he is on his way to the office and that's all it takes the rest of my day is amazing. I am dating a great guy who happens to be a very brilliant doctor going into residency very soon. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв.