Know her limits on substances. I got married to a Mormon woman. I feel sorry for you, not because your husbands are working so hard but because you gave up your own lives.
Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. The fact that you bring your query to Joanna Brooks rather than church authorities reveals much. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. You need to repent and change.
What about the folks at church. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday.
She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. I love how this applies to ALL marriages. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. He took out his bad moods on everyone. Joanna в this is one of your best.