I really enjoy your blog and your humor. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. I am also going thru the same thing.
Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. If it's true, it'll come out of the criticism looking better. And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. Read our FAQ s. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday.
Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. The intrusion into my life of an apparently irrational belief that was immune to my influence would have been felt more keenly every year. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is.
He's so used to me saying that I sometimes wonder why he even has to ask. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term.