I google searched for support with tears running down my face. Maybe there is wisdom behind some of the peculiarities. Our children 18,13,10 have become a handful.
At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. I didn't even believe. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. It did not go well. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. She is going to dump you. Toxic is the right word.
And now he is in his 60s. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. Either it's enough for you - or it's not. Hi, I am not a doctor's wife. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit.
The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. Look for girls in your singles ward. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert.