I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. Mormonism is a lot more controlling and has a lot more downsides. What can you expect. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on.
He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep.
I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. So that may be the end of it there. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. No lie he was one of the kindest human beings I've metbut I was afraid of getting deeper into the relationship, so I ended it. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. Be open and talk about your ideals. Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. I agree with Rachel- this is not what I signed up for.
Of course, it will cause fights, as well. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. Ladies take a stance.