Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. But it also means he has ultimate responsibility for his patients, both ethically and legally. There have been many times my husband or I have actually said something like "it is good that I am committed to our marriage because this is not fun". Want to add to the discussion.
There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. At least I know that there are people who truly understand the medical life. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. Marriage is meant to be eternal. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Take what you read with a grain of salt. She is passionate about it.
Being the first in his family to make it, he now supports the lives of those who didn't. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. Would love to join. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. Stop trying to make up for all the little things you miss with big short-term things. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this.
So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. Most of the doctors I know are either way older and in private practices where they can set their schedules a bit OR they're my age and still going crazy with residency hours. You will always be 2nd. My boyfriend is just going into his third year of med school. I feel like I am under the microscope. Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr. It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed.