I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. I don't know why the system allows this type of treatment Not only do the residents feel like they "should" be giving every single bit of their energy, intellect, passion, soul to their residency programs, but they are told by their program directors, attendings and everyone else around them that they "must". An interfaith marriage can be done well or disastrously, or even only being made up as you go. It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. It's like watching somone lose themselves in an abusive relationship. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center.
If you go to mormonthink. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family.
After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse. You are too young to deal with this. He knows that is a possibility. I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. But this phase isn't going to be short.
Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome.