There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. I am in relationship with my fiance for almost a year. They seriously have movies about it. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. I would NOT want my daughter or son to marry a doctor.
Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult.
Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice.
It's definitely not an easy life. I am seeing one right now My late ex was a physician and I was with him through med school, internship, residency and 20 years of his own practice. Mine was in California, back in the 70s. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. Only you will know. I wrote about the doctor I dated on my blog "Fifty Shades of Rey. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage.