It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. But he has been great till now. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. I believe rules are to be obeyed. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc.
And now he is in his 60s. Another thing to keep in mind: It's a very long, very hard journey to even get to that point of the MD marathon. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. It was actually causing more of a rift than bringing us together.
Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine. He does not place the marriage above it. You have given me the courage to continue to protect my marriage and children. I think you are all lucky to have such successful husbands, and I think in any marriage it is important to keep your own identity especially when you have children. Physical and logistic issues make the "wonderful ideas and alternative ideas "impossible.
You have to be willing to share him with his education process. I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc. There is no question this is the true church. How Soon to Call after a Date. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own.