You'll know pretty quick where she stands. But then when we do spend time together I have an absolute blast and everything just goes so well that I end up liking him even more. Sign Up It's Free. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. Start doing little things even when you are not there. Where do you find Mormon girls. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. What about the folks at church. I stand by my original statement. I adored seeing him when I could planned good home made meals and always sent him off the next night with a special packed lunch.
I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. Not the end of the world. One small thing to add here. Perhaps it was just her personality but I find most doctors repulsive. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom.
I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. We got married two years ago. Being a doctor means you sacrifice for others, and your family and spouse sacrifices while standing in the shadows of your career. But I'm still thinking about him. You can feel it in your bones.
The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. Today, I actually feel like I might literally go insane. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation. It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. Like you, I didn't want to stress him out by giving him some sort of ultimatum or demands. But those days may be gone. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage.