I bring him food I make sure he's happy. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. How do you feel about that. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. It's like talking to a wall.
The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time. I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality.
As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. It is not something that should be taken lightly. A lot of people are religious. We both love eachother and I support him as he supports me while im in school as well. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Simply tell him that you feel like your relationship is stagnating, and you'd like to talk about where it is going. But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. I alway understood and supported him so it was my way of being useful in the world, too. However, now that the student loans are paid off and we have a nice fancy custom home, he has decided to devote his money and time to purchasing and using new bikes road and mtnskis downhill and tele and the list goes on. Oh, boo hoo to me you say When you are made a promise and fall in love with a man who has a broken marriage, you begin to believe that one day you will be with him.
I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles.