The thing is I didn't want to marry someone who I'd never see or spend time with. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. I have a fairly business profession, but a lot of other stuff going on most weeknights.
It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. Should I bare the pain of being separated from him Which will hurt a lotor do I carry on hoping one day it gets better. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person.
A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. It may change your relationship to them forever. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. But it would not change my love for that person. This is right for me and for us. Before it started he got me a puppy that I maybe didn't really want to keep me company to help deal with the loneliness, so at least hopefully he understands. He could never tolerate my work schedule, so I became a stay at home mom.
This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. God knows the big picture. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. My brother is in medical school, and many of my friends are in their clerkship or already doing their residencies. I am so grateful to have had the ability to instill in them that family comes first. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking.