I think, on some level, we all realize this day is going to happen eventually. So, as a parent, what can you do? Before you talk with your child, take the time to cool down and get some emotional distance from the situation. Indeed, when you first find out, you may be freaking out, and no one does well under those circumstances. You may need to look inward to understand and define your own values before you sit down and discuss them with your child. But they may not be, not even to you, the parent. Your teen having sex may have come as a complete surprise to you, in which case, it may never have occurred to you to have those values figured out.
1. Get Emotional Distance From the Situation
2. Be Clear With Yourself What Your Own Values Are
Last Updated: February 2, References. To create this article, 62 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. There are 11 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been viewed 1,, times. Learn more It can be tricky to have sex without your parents finding out, especially if they like to keep an eye on what you're doing.
So, some of the posters on the other thread are saying that they will not allow their own teens to have sex in their homes, but they do realize that it can and will happen other places. Where ever I knew I wouldn't get caught. We bought a hotel room one time, well my boyfriend at the time did We also had sex in the back of his pick-up truck I know super Klassy.
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