I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. So you stay calm, stay pleasant, and try not to let it eat you alive. There are all kinds of Mormons, and we as exmormons should know better than to stereotype our former selves. His specality is emergency medicine so I know that is extreamley competitive. Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances.
Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple.
And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. Ask her out on dates. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. Any advice is greatly appreciated. You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world.
They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. In high demand" I would be out the door. I'm not marrying to be a single, working mom with money. However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it. Your husband will still round every weekend. First, let's start with a short musical introduction on what it's like to be a True Believing Mormon dude. Yet another reason I respect doctors so much-their emotional strength. Rawkcuf, maybe your comment is like your name and intended backwards, but what do you mean by differences between races.